One major mistake a marriage counsellor can make is not to understand there are differences between a man and a woman in the counselling room. Failure to know this will always make the counsellor make unnecessary mistakes and lead to frustration.
 
WOMEN IN THE COUNSELING ROOM
Women Are Full Of Emotion
1. They Come For Counselling Easily
2. Her Complaints May Not Be Logical
3. They May Not Tell You Everything
4. They Can Exaggerate Issues: 
5. Some of their friends give them wrong information about marriage.
6. Many are ignorant about marriage. Hence, they base it on custom, tradition, friends or parents’ experience.
7. Many of them have issues with submission.
8. They easily feel their husband does not love them again
9. They easily conclude their husbands are sleeping around. This may not be the truth.
10. Major issues with their husbands are money, high demand for sex, not being supportive with house chores, not caring and loving, too close to his family, infidelity, etc.
11. Many women duplicate the errors committed by their mothers. You will do well to ask about their parents’ marriage.
WAYS TO HANDLE WOMEN IN THE COUNSELING ROOM
1. They Can Indulge In Branching Communication Easily
2. Ask Them Leading Questions
3. Clarify What They Tell You
4. Be Patient With Women
5. Take Notes As They Talk: If you don’t do that, you will forget vital information.
6. Talk to them about submission
7. Talk to them about good dressing.
8. Study Proverbs 31, 14:1, 1 Peter 3:1-6
9. Introduce them to buy books that can help them love their husband and become an irresistible wife.